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In view of VESTERconcept commitment in helping you build and enjoy a healthy good relationship here is a summary of the five love languages. Relax and read this and apply it in your relationships and see the result. What if you could say or do just the right thing guaranteed to
make that special someone feel loved? The secret is learning the right love
language! Millions of couples have learned the simple way to express their
feelings and bring joy back into marriage: The
5 Love Languages, Dr. Gary Chapman’s New York Times bestseller! is a must read for all singles and married couples. In this post u will learn and discover how to apply the five love languages to build and enjoy a healthy and lovely relationship.
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Words of Affirmation
Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your
love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the
words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends
your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily
forgotten.
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Quality Time
In the vernacular of Quality Time, nothing
says, “I love you,”
like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is
critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all
chores and tasks on standby—makes your significant other feel truly special and
loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be
especially hurtful.
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Receiving Gifts
Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver
of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If
you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known,
you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring
the gift to you. A missed birthday, anniversary, or a hasty, thoughtless gift
would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures.
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Acts of Service
Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love?
Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on
an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want
to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making
more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.
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Physical Touch
This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose
primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs,
pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder,
or face—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love.
Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be
unforgivable and destructive.
With more than 30 years of
experience as a marriage counselor, Dr. Gary Chapman has heard it all. He has
helped couples at every stage of marriage and at pivotal points in their
relationships—from those just discovering the joys and trial of marriage to
those who are ready to call it quits.
After many years of counseling, Dr. Chapman noticed a pattern:
everyone he had ever counseled had a “love language,” a primary way of
expressing and interpreting love. He also discovered that, for whatever reason,
people are usually drawn to those who speak a different love language than
their own.
Of the countless ways we can show love to one another, five key
categories, or five love languages, proved to be universal and comprehensive—everyone
has a love language, and we all identify primarily with one of the five love
languages: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of
Service, and Physical Touch.
Since The 5 Love
Languages® debuted in 1992, over five million copies have
been sold, making The 5 Love
Languages® a perennial New York Times bestseller. But
numbers don’t measure the influence the book has had on couples and their
marriages.
The 5 Love Languages® has helped countless couples identify practical and powerful
ways to express love, simply by using the appropriate love language. Many
husbands and wives who had spent years struggling through marriages they
thought were loveless discovered one or both spouses had long been showing love
through messages that weren’t getting through. By recognizing their different
love languages, they witnessed the rebirth of the love they thought had been
gone for good.
The book has been translated into more than 40 languages and is
healing marriages around the world! Go grab your copy of the book from you nearest book shop it's a must read. for questions and or comments click me now
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